Self-Harm Support & Recovery
If You're Hurting Yourself to Feel Something—or to Feel Nothing at All—You're Not Alone
Self-harm is not a cry for attention. It’s often a cry for relief, control, or to silence pain that has no words. Whether you’re cutting, burning, picking, or engaging in dangerous behaviors, we see the pain underneath—and we treat that, not just the surface symptoms.
At Totality, we provide compassionate, clinically grounded support for individuals struggling with self-harm. No shame. No judgment. Just real help from people who understand what it feels like to be overwhelmed and not know how else to cope.

What Self-Harm Can Look Like
Cutting, scratching, or burning the skin
Hitting yourself or intentionally bruising
Preventing wounds from healing
Risk-taking or self-endangerment
Hair pulling, skin picking, or substance-related harm
Hiding scars or wearing long sleeves in heat
Emotional withdrawal or feelings of emptiness, guilt, or numbness
Persistent thoughts of self-punishment
Why People Self-Harm—and How We Address It
Self-injury is rarely about wanting to die. It’s often a response to:
- Overwhelming emotions with no outlet
- Trauma, abuse, or unresolved grief
- Depression, anxiety, or dissociation
- A need to “feel something” when feeling numb
- Shame or guilt that turns inward
- PTSD or complex trauma
- Substance use to numb emotional pain

Our Self-Harm Recovery Approach
Therapy That Heals the Root
- Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) – Learn emotional regulation, distress tolerance, and healthy coping tools
- CBT – Reframe negative thought patterns and reduce urges to harm
- EMDR & Trauma Therapy – Address underlying events or patterns that fuel the pain
- Mindfulness & Somatic Therapies – Help reconnect with your body in a safe, supportive way
Psychiatric & Medical Support
- Psychiatric evaluations and medication management for co-occurring depression, anxiety, PTSD, or dissociation
- On-site phlebotomy, lab coordination, and TMS therapy as needed
- Integrated team collaboration for your physical and mental well-being
Community & Connection
- Group therapy with others who understand what you’re going through
- Spaces focused on self-worth, identity, and empowerment
- Confidential, judgment-free support to break the isolation
Case Management & Daily Life Support
- Help with returning to school or work
- Housing, insurance, or transportation assistance
- Discharge planning and long-term emotional support
Support for Families and Loved Ones
- Understand what self-harm really is—and what it isn’t
- Respond with calm, compassion, and structure
- Set healthy boundaries and avoid reinforcing cycles of shame
- Rebuild trust and communication without walking on eggshells

You’ve Tried Programs. Now Try Something That Works.
Totality Treatment Center is more than a rehab. It’s a community of healers, guides, and believers walking beside you to create something better.